September 7th, 2010 
admin The relationship between mother and daughter can be very happy but sometimes can also become a dangerous relationship. Why both can be complicated relationship?
“This could be due to the mother sometimes has difficulty to distinguish what to do for the boys with her daughter,” said Lesley Miles is a psychologist, as quoted from Health24, Thursday (08/06/2009).
There is some tendency of girls closer to his father and son closer to her mother, but it is possible for the child to be close to both.
According to Lesley, the relationship between mother and daughter can identify strongly with each other making it an inspiration to one another, and usually the relationship is more often filled with a deeper emotional bond.
Aspiration of the mother for her daughter often contradictory. The mother wants her daughter to follow the conventional tradition, but on the other hand the mother also wanted her daughter to have a successful career and become a professional. Message mothers who opposed the mixed and sometimes makes her daughter became confused, what he really wanted his mother.
“In addition, when the mother entered the age of 30-40 years, his daughter will enter their teens, and often a mismatch arising between them that can cause problems between them,” says Lesley. The problem posed can be triggered because of the inequality of thought both or unrealistic expectations of each other.
Lesley suggested that communication and openness are the two most important things to keep the relationship between mother and child are well and healthy. This relationship must be built from the beginning and the necessary trust between mothers and daughters and vice versa.
Mom does not need to determine what to choose the child and the child can choose his own choice. While the girls should be open to her mother and not too imposing his own will. Mother and child will not be able to fulfill his own dream, because it takes mutual support between the two.
For that, create a good and healthy relationship between mother and daughter and son also, so as to create a harmonious and happy family.
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